It was a marathon "praise-a-thon" to raise money. For the religious TV station, or missions, or for a new satellite to preach God’s word to the world. I perched myself in front of the TV, watching folks stand at their seats with arms raised, moving and swaying to the music, eyes all watery, and shouting out a few praises in between stanzas.
A group of professional singers and musicians blanketed the
stage, leading the auditorium from one tear-jerking song to the next. I sat
thinking no TV audience could possibly be moved enough to donate by watching
this. But the on-screen total kept growing by the minute. A man in 70s couture
shouted loud and long about sowing seeds of prosperity. Giving in faith. He
testified because he didn’t rob God of tithes and offerings, that had God
blessed him. In fact, God had saved him from a life of poverty, sickness, and
disease. And then one day, because he was a tither, a check for six thousand
dollars mysteriously showed up in his mailbox. Praise God!
Phone numbers blinked at the bottom of the TV screen and I
wondered how many of these marathon offerings I've sat through in my lifetime?
Does God really need my money? Or does He really intend to test my faith on a
regular basis by whether or not I give my last dime?
I suppose that depends on whether or not we take the
scriptures literally. The condemnation I feel for even writing this weighs
heavy on me, because I was brought up on the covenants of God. On the
conviction of the Holy Spirit. On the literal meaning of each and every
scripture. And if you did not believe as we did, then whoa be unto you, you
sinner. You were dead already.
I understand why praise and worship offering marathons
exist. Somebody needs to carry the burden to pay for TV time. It might as well
be you or me. But I also know the fear involved. I swallowed that dogma for
years and chased the feelings of eternal security until my feet were worn to
bloody stubs.
Am I now an apostate? Have I forsaken the cross?
No.
I've grown tolerant. I've learned God's love cannot be
explained or compared to the love we know as humans. I've learned that we cannot
control God by "giving until it hurts." I've even grown tolerant of
folks praising God on camera and living like the devil when the house lights
are turned off.
I think many evangelicals have lost their focus of what it
means to give. We've become so wrapped up in believing that God wants His
people to have the best, that we forget Christ lived and dwelt among the poor
and the destitute. I'm not saying it's wrong to have nice things, and I don't
have a problem with sitting in a pretty church, but I do have a problem when it
becomes the focus of a church to make sure their pastor lives in the lap of
luxury. I have a problem with pastors who wear designer clothes when some in
his congregation can barely feed their kids!
I realize most churches claim to be good stewards with their
money. I'm sure some would permit you to see where their money is spent. Many church
congregations are extended family to their members, loving them and caring for
their needs during a family crisis. Church families can be a real blessing. But
when televangelists hound you week after week to hand over your ten percent in
addition to your love offering—they not only take away from the local church,
they’re also manipulating you to give out of fear. Fear that you won’t get that
raise, that new car, or the healing for your bad back. That you’ll miss out on
an “anointing” that comes with supporting their ministry. TV preachers and
marathon praise-and-worshippers know exactly what to say to make you weep. They
can send you to the phone to donate before you realize you've left the comfort
of your Lazy boy.
We can reach out in many directions, inside and outside
of the church. And we shouldn't feel guilty for it. I believe He blesses us
according to the intents of our heart. I've experienced the stranglehold of a
megachurch. I know first-hand the guilt involved in not paying your tithes. But
never again will you see me clutching my hard-earned money in my hand and
walking down the aisle to throw it at the pastor’s feet. A pastor who wears
Italian leather shoes and Armani suits. I'd rather take my chances and give it
to the panhandler on the corner.
Find a charity. Sponsors for children in underdeveloped
countries are needed, as well as here in America. With our economy the way it
is, struggling families in your own neighborhood need help. Be an anonymous
donor. Give your ten percent or more to a hurting family. Pay their light bill,
a mortgage payment, or stock their cupboards with groceries. Control where your
money goes. Leave a note on their door with a word of encouragement.
Blessings to you and yours.
1 comment:
Very interesting and wise approach.
I fully agree with your suggestion.
The point is to help because we feel like that, not because we are afraid that God will punish us.And whoever tries to scare us, (thus to manipulate and exploit us) is a suspect and not God's representative on Earth!
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